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It's Never Just About the Words
We often think of communication as what’s said out loud. I said X, they said Y. But communication is so much more than the exchange of words between two people. Think about it. Sometimes what’s said and what we hear are entirely different. Someone might comment about undone dishes, and we might hear it as a neutral fact or as a complaint. “There are so many dishes that need cleaning.” This one sentence between a couple could be: A small moment of connection after a long day,
Vidushi Sandhir
Oct 161 min read


Conscious Online Dating
If you’re looking to date and are open to exploring apps, this blog might be for you. I’m sharing a few things I did to make online dating align with my life and with my intention to date consciously. Conscious dating, to me, means approaching the process with reflection, boundaries, and heart, instead of rushing or following someone else’s rules. Your process may look different because you and I are unique. I’m someone who needs to pause after meeting people, even friends. I
Vidushi Sandhir
Sep 233 min read


Dating is Part of Healing
We often feel like we need to heal completely before stepping into the dating world. Alongside this, there’s a heavy emphasis on...
Vidushi Sandhir
Sep 32 min read


Relationship Pitfalls: 5 Things to Stop Doing Now
Disclaimer: I’m not a therapist. This post is intended for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional help. For...
Vidushi Sandhir
Aug 123 min read


Relationships and the Feminine
Overview: Why the Feminine Matters I’ve been thinking a lot about the feminine lately, especially how reconnecting with it can transform...
Vidushi Sandhir
Aug 53 min read


A Pre-requisite for Marriage
Meditation needs to be a mandatory pre-requisite to getting married. I know it sounds insane. Most revolutionary ideas do – until...
Vidushi Sandhir
Jul 282 min read


Emotional Intimacy Rituals That Actually Work
Rituals for emotional intimacy in a love relationship, marriage or partnership
Vidushi Sandhir
Jul 233 min read


Why We Judge
I’ve been thinking a lot about the root of conflict - or what we often call a lack of compatibility - whether in romantic partnerships,...
Vidushi Sandhir
Jul 184 min read


Lessons from Everyday Life
Lately, I've been reflecting on small yet meaningful lessons that the people around me have generously shared-sometimes without even...
Vidushi Sandhir
Jul 22 min read


Healing Core Wounds: Why the Work Happens in Relationship
This week, in a session with my shadow work coach, she said something that cracked open my perspective: Relationship patterns can only...
Vidushi Sandhir
May 224 min read


Things I’m Not Ashamed to Admit
I’m in my late 30s. Phew —time really flies. Lately, I’ve been reflecting on the path my life has taken, with all its unexpected turns...
Vidushi Sandhir
Apr 243 min read


What are you talking about?
It’s Not Just Talk There’s a famous quote often attributed to Eleanor Roosevelt: “Small minds discuss people. Average minds discuss events. Great minds discuss ideas.” Over the years, I’ve come to see a version of this that feels more aligned with where I am in my journey: “Small minds discuss people. Average minds discuss events. Great minds discuss wisdom.” Wisdom, of course, is a deeply personal pursuit. For me, it lives in the words of teachers like Radhanath Swami, Kesha
Vidushi Sandhir
Apr 183 min read


Your Nervous System is Talking
Ever feel like you're either on edge , totally checked out , or finally okay — and you're not sure why? That might just be your nervous...
Vidushi Sandhir
Apr 102 min read


Letting Go to Level Up
Meaningful change often comes with acute pain. Imagine a building with an outdated foundation, weighed down by years of accumulated gunk....
Vidushi Sandhir
Mar 113 min read


Health Signs I Stopped Ignoring
Somewhere along my corporate America journey, working with fast-paced financial clients, I normalized discomfort. I convinced myself that...
Vidushi Sandhir
Feb 203 min read


Small Shifts, Big Impact: 5 Wellness Habits
Five habits to elevate your wellness
Vidushi Sandhir
Feb 52 min read


Why is this so hard? (Hint: Because it's human)
We all struggle with these.
Vidushi Sandhir
Feb 43 min read


Make Boredom Cool Again
"Il dolce far niente" —the sweetness of doing nothing. A concept the United States just doesn’t understand. A concept we NEED to embrace...
Vidushi Sandhir
Dec 31, 20242 min read


Girl, Be Naughty, Not Nice
Winter and death Winter is the season for death. Death of old beliefs, outdated protocols, unnecessary burdens. I know it’s the festive...
Vidushi Sandhir
Dec 21, 20243 min read


New Year, Deeper Intentions
I absolutely adore the holiday season, especially in the Northeast. The crisp chill in the air, the bare trees, and the crunch of frost...
Vidushi Sandhir
Dec 9, 20242 min read
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